Lady, please help

My family is in a bad way. My parents have been estranged for a long while and there is no love lost among us the children. I’m the eldest among my siblings. My dad had affairs with other women resulting in his having other...

I’m so worried about the future

I am an 18-year-old lady living with my uncle. I lost my father when I was just five years old. And although my father left quite a sizeable estate at his death, our relatives who claim to be holding it in...

I can’t break the relationship between the Lord and I

 

Dear Lady,

I was born 25 years ago in Akwa Ibom and I have never consciously had sexual intercourse with any woman in my life. Although I am mature, I know that sex is for married...

The pain of growing up in Nigeria

Dear Lady,

I am a 21-year-old undergraduate in one of the Nigerian private universities. I am from Ogun State but born and bred in the northern part of the country. Even though I’m in the final year at the...

I stopped loving him

I am married to a man I loved so much. God blessed us with two beautiful kids and for the first three years, he adored me a lot and I respected him also.

It all started some two years ago when one day, I came back from work...

Do I give in to him?

I am a 22-year-old lady residing in Lagos. I graduated from the university last year and am currently undertaking my national youth service. Because of my background and beliefs, I decided not to allow any man sleep with me...

I WOKE up one day and your pictures were all over facebook. University students killed and burnt alive, the captions read. All over the internet, people mourned for you. Somebody had filmed your gruesome deaths and put it online for the world to...

 

Note the trees have time to blossom, change their leaves
I'll tell the world you’ve got something up your sleeves
this world is mine, it can be yours, my friend
all I don't want you to do is pretend

— Bob Marley

 

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