Am I on the right track?
Dear Lady,
I am a 29-year-old man living in Lagos. My parents are very wealthy and they ensure that my siblings and I have everything we need. Without being immodest, I can say that I am a very handsome young man, as everyone tells me so. Both men and women find me very attractive and are also drawn to me. I try to limit the number of friends I have though as well as draw a line somewhere with all that want my friendship. This constitutes no problem whatsoever.
My problem, however, is with the females. They come in droves and I’m finding it difficult settling down with any particular one among them. Since the age of 18, I have dated countless women and I’m beginning to find them boring. A large number of these women are shallow, aimless and fickle.
Lately, my father has been showing his displeasure at the number of female friends that throng our house to visit me. I guess he is losing patience at my seeming inability to be disciplined in this area of my life. Indeed, he is asking me to bring home the woman I intend to marry to stop other women from coming.
As I said, I am finding it hard settling down with one woman; they all seem the same to me. I have dated and dumped so many of them I have lost count. What should I do?
Yours,
BG
Dear BG,
I must say your combination of wealth and good looks is quite ‘lethal.’ A large number of women find men that possess both irresistible. So, it is understandable your present ‘predicament.’
However, it is not such a ‘problem’ that cannot be solved. First, you must rid yourself of the habit of dating every woman that throws herself at you, no matter how beautiful she may be or how much love she professes for you.
Your case can be likened to that of someone who, because there was an abundance of food at an event he attended, proceeded to gorge himself with the food until he became sick. For a long time after recovering, the mere sight of any food no matter how delicious made him want to throw up.
I can assure you there are many decent ‘wife materials’ around who possess admirable womanly qualities that will meet your father’s demand but you will never ‘see’ or recognise them as long as you keep yourself enclosed with the so-called shallow, fickle ones.
You need to ‘mellow’ down and get your act together in this vital area of your life, as it is fundamental to your success and how well you will fare later in life. It is not something to be toyed with at all and the earlier you started addressing the issue the better.
Is it possible?
Dear Lady,
Can one with high blood sugar be involved in the process of self-cleansing treatment? If yes, how and what measures can the person take? Thanks.
Yours,
Rose
Dear Rose,
I think yes, it is possible for someone who has high blood pressure to embark on an effective self-cleansing treatment.
But I think it is wise though to consult your doctor for professional advice. It is not advisable to undertake such measure without the appropriate professional medical guidance.
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