Dear Love Doctor,
I HAD a relationship that lasted for two years. I love my boyfriend but I take it that he doesn’t care about my feelings. He does tell his friends of his immeasurable love for me, but not when I’m around. I called off my relationship with him after the second year and entered a new relationship with another person. The issue now is that I don’t love this new guy and don’t feel the same way I feel for my ex. I had to go back to him trying to build up what we shared. Do you think my decision is right?
From Confidence.
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Advice:
Your story is full of contradictions and inconsistencies. Apparently, you are confused and do not know exactly what you want. You say that you don’t love your new guy and also that you don’t feel the same way about your ex. You must realize that an adult romantic relationship is not a child’s play. Therefore, if you are not psychologically ready for an affair or do not love your partner, you ought not to rush into an affair with him. Furthermore, playing with someone’s feelings will only bring you and that person pain and heartache. Since you don’t love both guys, the best thing to do is to stop dating both of them henceforth. Give yourself a break to clear your head and think of your future and what you want out of love. After that, you can then wait patiently and keep searching for that special person whom you will love and spend the rest of your life with. Cheers!
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