Dear Love Doctor,
I’M 19 and he’s 30 years older than me. We both work for a superstore. He’s sexy and fun to be with but he’s married with two little kids.
It all started off with us having lunch together and a bit of harmless flirting, then it got serious. One night we had to stay back late and ended up having sex inside the store.
I knew I’d get fired if anyone knew what we were up to but he said he loved me and made me feel I was special to him. It seemed worth the risk at the time.
Even so, I was almost relieved when he got transferred to another branch. He didn’t call for a week but then sent a text to say he wanted what he called goodbye sex with me.
I knew that he just wanted a quickie with me but I want so much more. I want him to want me for keeps, to leave his wife and his home and go steady with me, but he says that can’t happen because of his kids.
He’s demanding I meet him or he’ll tell the boss what we did. I told him that I’d tell his wife but he said that she wouldn’t believe me.
I’m so scared of losing my job. I cry myself to sleep at night and I can’t concentrate on my work in the day. I can’t talk to anyone at work because they’d go straight to the boss.
Advice:
There is a lot you can do to start to feel better. Start by telling that irresponsible man “No deal”, and no more sex. Don’t worry, he won’t tell your boss - he’s got too much to lose. Thank goodness he’s been moved to another branch.
He won’t leave his wife either, and it’s lucky for you that he won’t. Could you really trust a man who could cheat on his family like this?
Next time, don’t sell yourself so cheaply and don’t let anyone use you. Don’t get drawn into having sex unless you feel cherished and loved by someone who’s giving his all to the relationship. That is the best way to find the right partner for you.
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